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What Is a DIY Divorce – And Is It Right for You?


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When a couple decides to part ways, it doesn’t always mean a courtroom battle. For some, divorce is approached with mutual respect, cooperation, and a shared desire to move forward peacefully. This is where a DIY Divorce – or “Do-It-Yourself Divorce” – can be a smart and cost-effective option.


What Is a DIY Divorce?

A DIY Divorce is a self-managed process where both spouses work together to complete and file their divorce paperwork without hiring attorneys. It’s best suited for couples who are amicable, transparent with their finances, and aligned on the major decisions like property division, child custody, and support.


This option is growing in popularity for good reason – when done thoughtfully, it can reduce conflict, save time, and avoid the high cost of litigation.


The Benefits of a DIY Divorce

If you and your spouse are on the same page and committed to keeping things respectful, a DIY Divorce can offer several advantages:

  • Cost-Effective: Without attorney fees or drawn-out court battles, couples can save thousands.

  • Faster Resolution: You control the pace, allowing you to move forward without unnecessary delays.

  • Private and Low-Conflict: Working together keeps the process peaceful and away from public courtrooms.

  • Empowering: Taking charge of your own divorce can be a healing and empowering experience.

  • Family-Focused: For couples with children, DIY Divorce allows you to prioritize your co-parenting relationship and design a plan that truly works for your family.


But even the most cooperative couples often find themselves wondering if they’ve covered everything – especially when it comes to financial decisions, parenting plans, or understanding the long-term implications of their choices. That’s where we come in.


When a DIY Divorce Might Not Be the Right Fit


While a #DIYDivorce works well for many, it isn’t the right choice for every situation. If any of the following apply to your case, you may benefit more from mediation or legal support:


  • There are unresolved disputes over assets, parenting time, or support

  • One spouse is not fully transparent about finances

  • There is a power imbalance that prevents open communication

  • There are concerns about emotional safety or coercion

  • You simply need help navigating complex decisions together


If you find yourselves stuck on one or two issues, don’t worry – our mediation services can help bridge those gaps and get you back on track for a peaceful resolution.


Our DIY Divorce Support Package


Even amicable couples need a little guidance to ensure nothing is missed. That’s why we offer a DIY Divorce Support Service – a professional, supportive, and cost-effective way to finalize your divorce with confidence.


What’s Included?

  • A 90-minute session with a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and Mediator

  • A thorough review of your documents to ensure clarity and completeness

  • Financial and tax consultation to ensure you’re making sound, informed decisions

  • Evaluation of your parenting plan for smooth transitions, fairness, and long-term practicality

  • A Mediation Certificate upon completion

  • Option to schedule additional mediation hours (available for an additional fee)


This service does not provide legal advice – but it does give you the clarity and confidence you need to move forward with your DIY divorce.


Moving Forward – Together


At Garske Mediation, we believe divorce doesn’t have to be a battle. For couples choosing the DIY path, our support ensures you feel informed, prepared, and supported every step of the way. If you’re ready to move forward amicably and just need a little help finalizing the details, our DIY Divorce Support Service is here for you.


Let’s help you turn the page – peacefully, practically, and with confidence.










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